Actress Pamela Anderson, 51, is done with her relationship with soccer star Adil Rami, 33, after more than two years together.
Anderson took to Instagram to explain her decision to end the relationship, citing cheating. She wrote on Instagram, “The last (more than) 2.years of my life have been a big lie. was scammed, led to believe … we were in « big love »?”
Pamela noted that she found out about Rami’s alleged cheating “in the last few days,” adding, “he was living a double life. He used to joke about other players who had girlfriends down the street in apartments close to their wives. He called those men monsters. ?”
Along with calling him a “monster,” she asked, “How is it possible to control 2 women’s hearts and minds like this -.”
In the comments section of her post, Pamela admitted that she won’t “recover easily from this,” adding, “I felt many times his lies, his excuses, but were together every day – unless I went away to work. She also claimed that he didn’t trust her and “wanted me next to him always.”
Anderson also claimed that Rami alienated her from her friends, including David LaChapelle, who told her that her man “was not to be trusted.”
The former “Baywatch” star revealed that she will leave France after the breakup. She also accused Rami of abuse, saying, “He has hurt and threatened me many times.”
Adil has taken to Instagram to respond to her cheating allegations. While he denied leading a double life, he said in French, “I should have been more transparent” about his “ambiguous” relationship with ex Sidonie Biémont, the mother of his children.
Rami indirectly commented on the abuse claims, saying, “I stay and will stay true to my values and convictions expressed in my commitment to @solidaritefemmes, which is still strong.”
Solidarite Femmes is a nonprofit for female victims of violence.
Pamela and Adil first called it quits last year. At the time, a source told Page Six, “After spending this past week with Adil’s cute [2-year-old] twin sons… it broke Pam’s heart that he doesn’t see them enough, as he should, so she’s moving out.”
“Pamela feels she is the reason Adil doesn’t spend enough time with his children. She is removing herself from his life so he can do the right thing and be with his kids,” the insider emphasized. “It’s a selfless move by Pamela, a true romantic — and she is heartbroken. Adil has difficulty balancing his life with Pamela and what should be a healthy relationship with his ex, the mother of his children.”